life is nothing but a vapor

We are reminded everyday that life is nothing but a vapor.
No man knows the day or the hour!

Take nothing for granted, not even for a split second!
Be grateful for every living minute

'Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets,
So love the people who treat you right,
Forget about the ones who don't,
And believe that everything happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said life would be easy,
They just promised it would be worth living..'

Share with you all my love blog ~~
4 Things you cannot recover

妈妈,我爱你.

隨著自己愈長愈大，
看著父母親臉龐從年輕變憔悴，
頭髮從烏絲變白髮 ,動作從迅捷變緩慢，多心疼！
　
父母親總是將最好、最寶貴的留給我們，
像蠟燭不停的燃燒自己，照亮孩子！
而我呢？
有沒有騰出一個空間給我的父母，
或者只是在當我需要停泊岸時，
才會想起他們……
其實父母親要的真的不多，
只是一句隨意的問候：爸、媽，你們今天好嗎？」
隨意買的宵夜，煮一頓再普通不過的晚餐，
睡前幫他們蓋蓋被子，
天冷幫他們添衣服、戴手套……
都能讓他們高興溫馨很久。
　
有時，我常在想：我希望我的子女以後如何對我。
那現在，我有沒有如此對待我的父母？
我相信，人是環環相扣的；
現在，你如何對待你的父母；
以後，你的子女就如何待你。
　
朋友，人世間最難報的就是父母恩，
願我們都能：以反哺之心奉敬父母，以恩之心孝順父母！
　

　
生命不要求我們成為最好的，只要求我們作最大的努力！
老人安養院牆上發現的一篇文章
孩子！當你還很小的時候，
我花了很多時間，教你慢慢用湯匙、用筷子吃東西。
教你繫鞋帶、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳頭髮、擰鼻涕。
這些和你在一起的點點滴滴，是多麼的令我懷念不已。
所以，當我想不起來，接不上話時，
請給我一點時間，等我一下，
讓我再想一想……極可能最後連要說什麼，我也一併忘記。
孩子！
你忘記我們練習了好幾百回，
才學會的第一首娃娃歌嗎？
是否還記得每天總要我絞盡腦汁，
去回答不知道你從哪裡冒出來的嗎？
所以，當我重覆又重覆說著老掉牙的故事，
哼著我孩提時代的兒歌時，體諒我。
讓我繼續沉醉在這些回憶中吧！
切望你，也能陪著我閒話家常吧！
孩子，現在我常忘了扣扣子、繫鞋帶。
吃飯時，會弄髒衣服，梳頭髮時手還會不停的抖，
不要催促我，要對我多一點耐心和溫柔，
只要有你在一起，就會有很多的溫暖湧上心頭。
孩子！如今，我的腳站也站不穩，走也走不動。
所以，請你緊緊的握著我的手，陪著我，慢慢的。
就像當年一樣，我帶著你一步一步地走。
若為人子女也不懂得如何體諒他們，
那他們便只能於痛苦中渡過餘生，黑暗中逝去 ....

讓他們知道家人才是最重要的。
愛情可以重新再找尋，但父母一生卻只有一個，
要珍惜、珍重。

Droping of a leaf

From a small little leaf,
We can see that every little life got same and not same.
Every little life from the start to the end of the journey.
Understand about die is one of our journey in our life.

A trees, below got a lot of leaf .....
All the leaf look like same !!
But when you notice it clearly !! none of the 2 leaves are same !!
Autumn come already, all the green tress suddenly become full of nice colour.
Got red, got yellow, got brown, got black and more !!

Why same tress but drop the leaves !! none of the 2 leaves are same ??
Then I understand that because we all growing are not same and journey also not same.
Some get more rain water, some get more sun , some hire behind, some get water and sun less !!
This make our leaves colour also not same !!!



Nothings in our life is remaid not change.
Different experience and feeling generated out our colourful life also not same.
How our life special, great, happy, strong, weak and other .... one days also will end ............
Start our life journey, We will slowly walk to the end !!
This cannot be charge in our life journey.
What is the world when we die already ???
Because worry die already don't know go where ...
So make us worry and scare to facing it.
Facing a things that you don't know !!! You worry that is correct !!

But !!!!
When spring become summer !! We not worry .....
When summer become autumn !! the wings blowing all the leaves away ....
We also not scare and worry !!
Why ?
They all are natural journey for the world.
Why we scare or worry about die ??
^_^



In this world no things will remaid to the end !!
Spring,summer,autumn and winter.
Born,old,sick and die.
This is our journey.
No people love to die.
Born and die is got relationship.
Got born then will got die !!!
Die is cannot be charge in our journey so we must ready to facing it.

We born in this world.
Not just sleeping, working, earn money then die.
Enjoy travel , shopping, gathering,singing with friends.
Happy, seeing, enjoying, crying a part make our life become colourful.
So don't stress to much on yourself.
Your life will be get better.
Just see yourself belief it or not !!
^_^

Happy Brithday To You

Ha ~ ha ~
This is me and one of my lovely secondary school friends.
^_^
What is her name ?
Secret !!
haha
She is the one who come to my house and pick me go the birthday party and send me home too.
I really thank her because ... where got a girl .. come and pick a boy .... and mid night go home also dangerous too.
Because my sister want to use car ....
Because wish can car pool to reduce pollution to our earth.
Because wish to save other friends petrol money, tol money, parking money so I suggestion one car go !!
^_^

So really thank her.
So next time, I am the one fetch you all ~~
Come sit my lovely white car !!
haha



Where we are going ??
Yes !!
Is September 8 Tuesday !!
Is her birthday !!
The above princess birthday !!!
We are going gathering birthday party at Sunway Pyramid on last week Saturday night !!
She is the one who send sms to invited me.
I really thank her and happy.
I also long time no see all my secondary school classmate especially is girl classmate !!
Got 7 years +++ already.
haha
^_^

Lovely and friendly nice girl.
Happy birthday to you !!!



Yahoo !!
Happy family !!
All is secondary school friends !!
See we all so happy !!
All is look beautiful and handsome !!
After dinner then we go "yam cha" gathering.
^_^

The most important all are healthy and happy !!!
We gathering and know each other again !
Time is so fast .... just chat with some secondary friends already .. mid night ...
haha,
Waiting for next gathering again .
haha



Aiyaya !!
Why no see any birthday cake in photo ??
That is the problem ..........
All people also wish own birthday have a cake ... but ... we all forget to buy a cake for her ......
But never mind, next years.
I will remember to buy a cake for her.
Now, the above photo is a cake cake for you.
But just cannot eat !!
Wish you fell our true love for you birthday celebrate party !!
^_^

Ta ta !!

Like is like !! Don't like is don't like !!

Start working a week already.
Feel that still ok and fine. Wish go along the road is fine.
What is call fine ?
For me fine is work in happy and can jump here + there !!!
Let me earn many many money also no use ... if don't happy ...... but !!
Remember ... happy and money 100% cannot be balance !!
Work got 2 kinds ~
One is every week got many time relax and boring life !!
Second is every week busy for work and busy life !!!
Wish one you are ???

Human is like that !!!
Got many things to do then complain ....
Nothings to do then said .. .boring .....
^_^



Lucky, I work at this new company.
I can find many happy in this company !!
That is I love sports.
Now, I got chance work at this new school company.
Can go play table tennis play, badminton and gym also ~~
All is free !!
Beside that, the working time is nice ~~
8.00 morning to 4.30 noon only so still got time enjoy my sports.
^_^

Last Saturday, so happy.
One of the princess secondary school girl invited me go her birthday party ~~
Last time miss chance to go other princess birthday party.
At here said sorry for her .....
But this time ,I will not miss again.
Go Go Go ~~
^_^



Like is like !!
Don't like is don't like !!
I really like can join girl and boy go sing k and eating around !!
If don't like !! all is free ..... I also will not go !!
^_^

My heart is so happy and thank.
Birthday princess want to hug me .... I shy and scare ....
Really no use ah ... me ............
^_^

But see all my secondary school friends happy and healthy !!!
I really happy in heart again !!
Just forget give the birthday princess a birthday cake !!
A birthday ... no cake .. .feel like miss somethings !!
Shy to buy alone .. but heart is think to buy ........
so ... keep it up !!
Sam Sam !!
You can do it !!

Two kinds of husband. Two kinds of life.

A Kind of husband:
She: "Husband. Help me pick a glass of water."
He: "stone !!! scissors !! cloth. Who lose !! who is going to take the water !! ."
She: "Well. I go myself."

B Kind of husband:
They sit together and look at Drama. She stand up. He asked, "Where you go?"
She: "I go pick a glass of water."
He: "You take sit here and see. I went to pick for you."

Women so pitty. The only requirement for a her is "Care her."
You can what also did not have. If you "care her".
She had enough courage to put her own rest of her life for you.

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A Kind of husband:
When he finishes his work. he call her : "darling", tonight I went out to dinner with friends."
She: "You're not promise me go shopping with me?"
He: "another day bar!"
She quietly tears. Why does this every time?

A Kind of husband:
When he finishes his work to call her: "Dear. Someone give me an Olympic ticket. Brazil ah! For a while I went to watching."
She: "Oh. So ah. Okay."
He: "how upset?"
She: "You forgot. Today I said last week a good friend and her boyfriend invited we eat together."
He: "My God. I'm sorry dear. I forgot. Then I give the ticket to someone else. I with accompany with you."
He: "No need ah . You can eat another day. Or you go first. We will wait for you."
He: "That's impossible. Promise yout things that have to do. You together with them like a light bulb like. You are certainly not comfortable with ah"
She: "Nothing ... ..."

Do not wait for her finish. He was very powerful to tell her, "better. Listen to me. You tidy up. I'll come pick you."
In fact, women are not ignorant of everything. Only. She needs to come across a sensible man. A matter of fact. Between couples. Can be mutual.

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A Kind of husband:
He: "I'm out for dinner tonight, ah."
Her: "What time come home?"
Him: "sure come home before 9 o'clock."
9:30, She: "What time you come back ah?"
He: "10:00. Definitely go home."
11:00. 12:00. 1:00. 2:00 ... ...
Later. She no longer call him reminders. Because she knew. Men who do not abide by commitments. All "yes" are "not necessarily."

B Kind of husband:
He: "I am out to dinner at night. 9:00 certainty will end then we go to see movies."
She: "You can so quickly end?"
He: "Don't worry. I promise you, I will be able!"
When approaching 9:00. He: "tidy up bar. I immediately went to your house "

Belief , trust, promise !! . Is a small matter to build up.
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A Kind of husband:
A: She physiological period. Physically uncomfortable. Braved to pain at laundry. Clean up the house.
He sat in front of a computer to play online games.
She finished the job of living. Bed. Grow a deep breath.
He looked at her: "Baby. you tired already !!"
And then turned his head. To continue to play his game.

B Kind of husband:
B: She physiological period. uncomfortable. Got up and ready to do the laundry.
He grabbed her: "You go to bed, lying down. Let Me do !"
She: "Do you know how to do housework? you washed your clothes before ?"
He: "no !! but I am going to learn to do ah. After the time when you are not feeling well. I certainly have Dudangyimian!"

Women need not just sweet talk. To coax her a few words. She may give you a smile. But the real care. She will have you forever gratitude. And will return to you a warm home.

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A Kind of husband:
A: She took him a bag of hazelnut. Then she went do house work.
Came back. Hazel has been depleted, he ate.

B Kind of husband:
B: She gave him a bag of hazelnut. Then clean up the house.
Came back. She saw the computer put a bunch of stripping in front of a good Hazelnut.

A woman is very emotional. She show off her thoughtful you are. Just like to show off the same carat diamond. Such a low-cost trading. With a little effort can reap immense wealth.

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A Kind of husband:
He said: "You are the best."
She asked: "What I am good?"
Him: "have high academic credentials. Ability. Handsome. For I was so good."
She smiled.

B Kind of husband:
He: "You are the best girl I have met."
She: "what am I good ?"
He: "You are very friendly to everyone around. Very unselfish. For people life is always very grateful. That a person has a good heart. Make people around feel the warmth. You are the best kind I've ever seen girl. hurt you people should go to hell! "
She burst into tears.

One person. Is because you are good. Therefore, he/she fell you good.
One person. Is because the know you are good. So want you to be good.
Happy lovers. First should be a confidant of each other's appreciation.

一个成熟的爱情

一个成熟的爱情... 有一位心理学家曾写过，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：
- 共存(Codependent)
- 反依赖(Counter Dependent)
- 独立(Independent)
- 共生(Interdependent)

第一个阶段：共存
这是热恋期间，情人不论何时何地总希望能黏在一起。

第二个阶段：反依赖
等到情感稳定后，至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。

第三个阶段：独立
这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。

第四个阶段：共生
这时新的相处之道已经成形，你的他/她已经成为你最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持，一起开创属于你们自己的人生。你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。



但是，大部分的人都通过不了第二和第三阶段，而选择分手，这是非常可惜的。

很多事只要好好沟通都会没事的，不要耍个性，不要想太多，要互相信任，这样，第二和第三阶段的时间就会缩短。

和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的，不要轻言放弃。

两人相聚是因为有缘，相知是因为有心，真的得好好珍惜这福分。希望能给大家一些启示和领悟，并惜缘。



我们会渐渐变成我们所爱的人。你和他本来没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也南辕北撤,一旦爱上了，年深日久，你会惊讶你的眼睛有点像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有点像你的微笑。你们走路的步伐也有点相似，说话的语气也越来越相像。原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。

你本来喜欢脚踏实地的人，而他一向比较轻佻，但你们爱上了，他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人，这个改变，连他自己也不曾察觉。他本来喜欢活泼的女孩，却爱上拘谨的你，这些日子，你竟会越来越活泼，你差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人，这种改变绝对不是刻意的。两个人越爱得长久，气质也越来越相近。
你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的那种类型，然而，有一天，你会惊讶的发现，他已经变成你喜欢的那种类型，你不必再到处寻觅，他就是你要找的人。深深爱着一个人的时候，你原来真的会一点一点的失去自己，为什么你还会觉得快乐呢？大概是因为你在失去的时候，你把他的气质和微笑都赚回来了。

幸福很单纯，所以要很单纯的人才容易获得。

真爱就是不轻言放弃。

At new company work = get a new girl friend

Friend friend already some years or some month already ....
Then feel that she is suitable to me.
Wish she can become my girl friend.
^_^

haha
After become my girl friend.
This is the start.
At new company work = get a new girl friend
I just accept a new girl friend.
Her look nice, international school.
Working time early 8.00 to 4.30 only every Monday to Friday.
Saturday just 8.00 to 12.30 noon.
Dating only .
haha



After understand her.
Get to become girl friend already.
Now only know .....
She got many wish ...
Wish this ...wish that ......
Start this few days .... I got feel regret ....
But ... lucky got the warm of her give me and her friend (Staff in the company).
Friendly, nice, happy .
^_^

May be just a start few days.
Mother and sister also tell me !!
Must be careful.
^_^

Because we all are human !!
Human not easy to understand.



Got a new girl friend !!
Wish to find other but ...... she also no wrong ...
Which girl don't wish this and wish that ??
She only love you then wish you help her take the star !! take the moon !!
haha.

Cry .. regret also no use because I already accept she become my girl friend.
So ..... give her 6 month !!
Take a try.
Give my full love to her and my hardworking.
Because we all is human, human can get the warm and touch.
haha.

Wish is like that.
^_^

Girl friend = my new company.
She = my new company
Wish this , wish that = my new company rules and regulation.

Today start work at new company.

http://www.serisuria.edu.my/
Above is the website and the picture of the real education group.
Today, I start work under this group of company.
This company is give education from small children kindergarten to University.
Hear also great !!
haha.



http://www.serisuria.edu.my/
This is the primary + secondary school.
The school name is Sekolah Seri Suria.
Is a private school.
Most of the rich people children study on it.
^_^

But all the staff work at there is drive cheap car only.
haha, one of them is me !!!!
haha



http://www.serisuria.edu.my/location.html
Above is the website and the map.
That my working place.
^_^

Working time is Monday to Friday 8.00 morning to 4.30 noon.
But .. Saturday also got work .... is 8.00 morning to 12.30 noon.
haha !!
This great because I wake up early but Saturday got work ... a bit sad .. but never mind.

This company good is all people friendly, got students, teacher , staff .
Nice !!!